Filipinos are big on ‘sharing’. I don’t mean sharing a house or sharing food etc (although they do that a lot too). The word here is used to refer to talking in front of a group about a personal experience such that the group can either share in your joy and thereby derive inspiration from it or share in your sadness and thereby lessen your load.
It would seem that from a Filipino perspective, there’s nothing more inspiring than a foreigner who has given up their time to come and work for the poor in the Philippines. - particularly as so many Filipinos are so focused on finding an opportunity to work abroad. As such, I have found my role in GK has morphed slightly. On top of the ‘architecture’ stuff, myself and fellow American volunteer, Alison, are being ‘utilised’ to inspire more locals to volunteer with GK. This has in fact become the full-time role of Dylan, the English guy I stayed with in Manila, and he now gets invitations to speak internationally. While Alison and I are not quite in the same league! , we are asked to share on a regular basis locally – what inspired us to work for GK and our experience so far. Alison is a Filipino American also my age. She was born and bread in the U.S. and wanted to reconnect with her Filipino heritage while also serving a cause she believes in – GK’s health program.
“They’ll listen to you because you’re foreigners” they say. Both Alison and I agreed we were in two minds about this. Part of me is questioning whether this is simply perpetuating the colonial mentality but the other part of me thinks that if they really want me to do this and if it encourages more people to volunteer with GK for the betterment of this country isn’t that a good thing? I was also initially rather uncomfortable about getting up in front of a group of strangers and talking about myself – I’m a bit out of practice at public speaking, having not done it for a while, and coming from my own cultural perspective, it’s not really ‘cool’ to tell everyone about yourself (the tall poppy syndrome). I realised I would just have to ‘get over’ all this cultural baggage and just do it.
We have been doing the rounds of all the colleges in Bacolod, giving a GK Orientation to all the 1st year students. Louie, who is in charge of volunteer recruitment, facilitates. He is also our age, works full-time for GK and is very dedicated. He speaks a little about GK, we show some of the very slick videos put together by the GK Communication team in Manila, and then he calls on us to ‘share’. I have included my ‘sharing’ below as well as one I had the privilege of hearing a few weeks ago.
This week we have been involved in welcoming the first of a series of groups from Singapore, mostly students, who are coming for 1 week immersions in a GK village. They’ll do some building and learn a bit about the Philippines. Alison and I gave our ‘sharings’ as part of their GK orientation session and I was responsible for supervising them for the day they spent building with the beneficiaries at Handumanan. All 52 houses at my village in Handumanan are now at varying stages of construction! Construction began only 10 weeks ago. The village is due for completion in January.
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My ‘sharing’ goes a little something like this:
Mayong aga sa tanan. Ako si Jen. Australian volunteer ako. Ako full time worker sa GK sa pulo (10) ka bulan. Apat (4) ka bulan na ako diri sa Bacolod. Architect ako. Venti ocho (28) anos ako. Naga-tuon ako ilonggo … so please bear with me.
But now in English!
I have been asked to briefly share with you my story – why I came here and my experience working with GK.
For some time I have wanted to do something to help those who are less fortunate than myself. I don’t have a lot of money to give away, but I do have my time and my talent that I can share. So I wanted to find a way that I could use my training as an Architect to help a developing country. That is when a friend told me about the AYAD program (Australian Youth Ambassadors for Development) run by the Australian government. It’s similar to the US Peace Corp. AYAD had identified GK as an organisation that was really making a difference in the Philippines. So they partnered with GK. Given the massive task ahead for Nation Building, GK identified the need for an Architect in Negros. So I applied, and here I am!
Of course, it is not easy – there are plenty of challenges being a volunteer in a foreign country. It is challenging to be away for so long from home, my family, my friends and in particular my boyfriend. It is also challenging working in a very different cultural context from what I’m used to.
But, the rewards far outweigh the challenges. I am learning so much (not just about the Philippines but also about myself) and meeting so many inspiring people. It makes it all worthwhile when I see the joy and gratitude on the face of a beneficiary when they are handed the keys to their first ever home and to know that I played some small part in that.
Who of you has already heard something about GK before today? Most of you – so you already have a headstart on me because I have to be honest with you, before I came to the Philippines I really didn’t know much about GK, or the Philippines. I was amazed to learn that more than half of all Filipinos are squatters in their own country. Over the last 4 months that I’ve been in the Philippines, I have come to realise what a huge and successful organisation GK is – with a strong vision and an ambitious goal. . I came here to design and build houses for the poor but I soon realised that GK is not just about building houses, it’s about building communities. The best thing about GK and the reason why I believe in the work is because the approach is wholistic and sustainable. We don’t just build houses and walk away. It is supported by a team of volunteers who guide the community to organise themselves into cooperatives etc and other volunteers who give their time at weekends to deliver programs on health, spend time with the kids or help establish livelihood programs etc. It very much relies on working together, bayanihan. I truly believe, if everyone comes together to play their small part, a slum free squatter free Philippines might just be achievable within our lifetime. So I encourage you all to volunteer with GK in whatever way you can even if it’s just a couple of hours per week. It is a very rewarding experience!
Salamat ___________________________
In turn, I have been inspired by others who have also ‘shared’. One such sharing was given by Anna Balcells, a local lady of Spanish decent who has made a commitment to raising the funds for a whole village. At the handover of the latest batch of 8 houses she gave the following sharing:
Good morning ladies and gentlemen, Mayor Eric Saratan and all Talisay City and Barangay Officials, all Gawad Kalinga and Couples for Christ Members, Family and Friends!
Today we turnover the next 8 houses of the Gawad Kalinga – Alberto Balcells Legacy Village. Every house in this village is a miracle and a labour of love.
My father, Alberto Balcells, who was born in Barcelona, Spain and lived in the country for 49 years, always said that Talisay and the island of Negros was his PARADISE and that he would rather live here than anywhere else in the world.
Yes, the Philippines was my father’s personal Paradise. BUT he would always tell me how it broke his heart to see so much poverty in such a beautiful country, especially the homeless and how he wished he had the money to help build everyone a house. I now clearly see that Papa would like us all to help make the Philippines a paradise for every single Filipino especially for the poorest of the poor.
After being inspired by Gawad Kalinga and in honor of my father, I set out to establish the Gawad Kalinga – Alberto Balcells Legacy Village last year. This would be my family’s way of THANKING the people of Talisay – and Negros Occidental – for making Papa one of their very own and taking such good care of him and his family.
I strongly ENCOURAGE all families in Negros to establish Gawad Kalinga communities IN HONOUR of a loved-one. If all families do this, we CAN eradicate homelessness.
So today we want to truly thank the families who so generously donated the funds required to build the next 8 houses of this village. This is primarily due to 4 houses from my nephew Daryll Lacson-Wilson from Vancouver, Canada, 2 houses from my good friends Joe & Tina Guingona and 2 houses also from my good friends George & Nena Ortoll. This brings us already to a total of 20 houses; almost halfway to our goal and commitment of 50 houses for the GK – Alberto Balcells village.
I also wish to extend our gratitude to the Mayor of Talisay City, Eric Saratan, and all the people of Talisay for their whole hearted support for this housing project. We hope that this successful partnership between the political leaders and the private business community will continue to prosper for the good of the City of Talisay. We need to work together to bring even bigger projects into our city. So we appeal to all of the people of Talisay City to work harmoniously for more projects like this to take place.
And most especially THANK YOU to Gawad Kalinga for successfully helping the lives of thousands across the nation by building not just homes but stable communities. So much can happen when Filipinos open their hearts to their countrymen. I encourage each of you to generously support Gawad Kalinga as they successfully change the lives of the poor.
My message to everyone, once again is that just as my father found paradise in this country let us all help MAKE IT A PARADISE FOR EVERY SINGLE FILIPINO, ESPECIALLY THE POOREST OF THE POOR. Most Filipinos think paradise is out there and yet we can find it right here. The poor, like all of us, deserve to have their own little piece of paradise in this beautiful country.
To the beneficiaries, I want you to know that these houses were built with love. I hope you will love them and take good care of them so that you may create a beautiful home and a wonderful community to live in.
Thank you and God bless you all abundantly! ________________________
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